The Story Behind Oak & Hive

"Why is there no one to talk to?"

I asked my husband after our son was diagnosed autistic in 2022. And then again when we were trying to determine school options for him. "I just wish I had someone to bounce ideas off of or guide me to help figure out what to do!"

Many months later, a friend reached out, asking about inclusive preschool options for her child. I couldn’t wait to help her. As I reflected on how many times I’d been asked for advice since Jake had been diagnosed—whether it was about getting an evaluation, building a neuro-affirming team, or finding the best resources for neurodiverse care—I realized something: I loved being able to help.

Truthfully… I craved it.

Anytime I saw a Facebook post of a mom in need of a resource I jumped in and shared all I knew.

Anytime a mom wrote desperately seeking community I happily introduced myself.

Over the past two and a half years, I’d become a resource for so many others, and it brought me immense joy to see how the referrals I shared made a difference in children’s lives. Receiving messages like, "Sammy is thriving at xyzzy!" after helping connect a family to the right care felt like receiving a million dollars in my bank account. It was these moments that confirmed that I was on the right path—creating a space where families could not only receive support but also thrive in their unique journeys.

This passion sparked the creation of Oak & Hive Consulting. From that moment, I knew I wanted to create a place where parents could find the guidance and support that I so desperately needed at the start of our journey. I wanted to make sure no family felt lost or alone in the process.

I also have realized that the more families I work with whether that is in my personal or professional life I find myself learning, connecting, and healing… we are in this TOGETHER!

I am comfortable being uncomfortable. I believe in advocating for what’s best for my son, learning along the way, and encouraging other parents to do the same. It’s not always easy, but it’s through that discomfort that we grow and discover the right solutions for our children and families. I’m here to help parents navigate that space, making sure they feel empowered and equipped to advocate for their children and themselves.

I am a research nut. I believe in the power of thorough research to find the best options and solutions for each family. It’s not enough to just rely on what’s available; I dive deep into understanding the most effective resources and therapies, staying up-to-date with the latest research so I can make informed recommendations to every family I work with.

So, why Oak & Hive?

The Oak symbolizes roots, strength, and growth, providing a foundation that families need to support their children’s success. Just as the oak tree grows from deep roots, Oak & Hive helps families establish that solid foundation—starting with the right resources, leading to growth and transformation. The branches of the oak tree represent the pathways we build together, each branch a different journey, uniquely suited to the individual needs of every family.

The Hive is about community, connection, and collaboration. Just as bees work together in harmony to build a thriving hive, Oak & Hive brings together families, providers, and experts, creating a network of support and knowledge. The Oak Circle, our support group, is a central part of that community. It's a safe space where parents can connect with each other, share experiences, and learn from experts in a supportive, inclusive environment. At Oak & Hive, we believe that community is essential for growth and healing.

The Bee represents transformation. I’ve had a lifelong fear of bees, and when I first started this journey with my son, that fear mirrored my fear of autism—something unknown and intimidating. But as I’ve come to understand, bees are a symbol of growth and change. They show how something small can create big transformations. In the same way, embracing neurodiversity can lead to profound personal, familial, and societal change. What we fear most can often lead us to our greatest breakthroughs.

Oak & Hive Consulting is a space where families find the clarity, resources, and community they need to navigate their unique journey with confidence. I’m committed to helping families build the support system they need to see their children thrive, just as I’ve seen so many others do.